Overheard in the hallway at school this morning, a mom asking, “ok, deal?” of her 4th grade child. Parents, do not negotiate with your kids. They need the structure and authority that comes from parents. If you start making deals with them, you will find that they are the loan sharks you see in mob movies. Expect that they do the things, expect that they behave, expect that they come to school without throwing a tantrum, and enact consequences for not following through.
